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© BWAD 1998 - 1999
last update: 19.09.2002

Making it Work:
The speaker prepares a presentation on a topic of general interest he or she wants to share with others.   The host organizes the infrastructure for the presentation, from catering (food and drink) to presentation facilities.

The accountant makes sure that the finances are handled correctly. Coordinators take care of activities not done by the speaker, host or accountant. The group enjoys and recognizes the joint effort of these people. It's a win-win situation.

 


Topic Selection
At the beginning of each cycle (basically each half calendar year), the proposed topics are submitted for approval to the extended group (both active members as well as regular passive attendees), to ensure that there are no undue objections to a particular subject.

Initially Monica and Yuval approached people on a random basis, considering the following criteria to secure the group's diversity and bond:

  • true interest (primary criteria)
  • studies / educational background (diversity!)
  • company / professional background (yet again, diversity!)

The group is likely to evolve in the future, so that participants who are not able to present this year, will have an opportunity to do so in the next cycle. Interested persons should thus contact Monica or Yuval well in advance.

 


Coordinating
At present this is done by the initiators of BWAD, Monica van der Weele and Yuval Levy

 


Presenting
Each presentation takes place in the manner that the speaker sees fit. Speaker and host have boundaries only in terms of time and budget and they may lead the group how they feel necessary - even to unusual places.

This is your day! We will usually start with the brunch at 10:30am (you don't want to hound your friends out of bed all too early on a Sunday morning, do you?) - and then it's show time! Experiment, dare! Enjoy yourself while delivering your presentation.

You should think of - and communicate well in advance – your requirements in terms of facilities (overhead projectors etc.) to the host. The aim is that a single speaker and host can carry off a session entirely on their own - from beginning to end.

Should you so wish – and to complete the learning opportunity - a formalized feedback session on your performance can be realized.

 


Hosting
Not everybody has a home large enough to host a presentation, but we know your hearts are big enough to give it your best shot.

The hosting requirements tend to differ from presentation to presentation, due to the uniqueness of each event. This is essentially an organizing activity. In most instances the venue-host and presentation-host are one and the same person. The only time that this may not be so is when one person can come up with a superb venue (venue host) but is not in a position to – or prepared to - take on the overall organization (e.g. setting up the invitation text, securing special facilities).

 


Accountant
This person is a volunteer. If there is more than one volunteer, the names of the candidates are submitted to the group and the accountant is elected.

The accountant makes sure that the money is handled correctly. He reports to the group about the financial situation of BWAD when needed and works closely with the hosts of the different events in terms of budget and expenses. Since we are a non-profit organisation, he also coordinates the use of profits, should there be any, for example in favour of a special event / charity.

 


Contributions
These are the options:
a) CHF 120.-- in advance for six brunches.
b) CHF  30.-- per brunch for ad hoc participants.

In addition, first time participants are entitled to a one-time 33% discount and pay only CHF 20.--.

 


Feedback: A give and take
Although we want to stay as informal as possible, there is a critical point where formality makes the difference: feedback. This is a very sensitive area, as people may not be accustomed to giving and receiving feedback - particularly negative feedback.

This is why we find it necessary to bring these brief feedback rules to your attention. They're useful for every situation where feedback – both formal and informal - is necessary and/or desirable in our day to day lives. Make the best of them!

How Feedback should be given:

  • Ownership: in "my" opinion, not "the royal we" or "one"
  • Descriptive, not interpretive
  • Concrete, precise and based on facts, not general
  • Honest and overt
  • Clearly formulated
  • Current, immediate (here and now)

How Feedback should be taken:

  • Agree to a feedback session only if you are positively disposed
  • In the first instance, hear out the feedback quietly
  • Do not defend or seek to justify
  • Calmly enquire and clarify
  • Extend your thanks for the feedback
  • Keep behavioral changes in check
  • Current, immediate (here and now)

 


Tips for Hosting
Yuval’s Party Tips Click here to download as a Word97 file

A party with real service is different than the ones with disposable services everybody is used to. Here is some helpful advice to make the most out of it.
Account for more work in the kitchen than with disposable service. Either hire a maid, or have friends help you. If you ask them politely, most guests will be very happy to help you. It will make them feel important, they'll love you.

Glasses

  • There's a high turnover at parties, people forget their glasses or want to taste different drinks.
  • You‘ll need about twice as many glasses as people.
  • Present the glasses if possible on serving trays, or a clean cloth, upside down.
  • Make sure there are always enough glasses out in the party area.
  • Keep reserve trays and glasses in the kitchen.
  • Make sure abandoned glasses are returned to the kitchen. The room will look better and you’ll avoid accidental loss. A good idea is to politely ask one or two friends to keep an eye open and from time to time return abandoned glasses to the kitchen.
  • When there are enough dirty glasses in the kitchen, have them washed.
  • Make sure the glasses are well rinsed. There's nothing worse than a soapy tasting wine.
  • Make sure the glasses are dried. Water stains look bad.
  • Have the glasses ready on trays for the next round.

 

Plates

  • Keep the plates in the kitchen. Bring them in the party room only when it's time to eat.
  • Put them behind the buffet, or in a separate area. Avoid them being accidentally soiled.
  • Keep enough plates out in the party room and a good reserve in the kitchen. In case of an accident you'll have clean plates available and time to wash the dirty ones.
  • Have abandoned plates returned to the kitchen by friends.
  • When piling used plates make sure that the leftovers are in the trash and that there is no cutlery between the plates. Don't give catastrophes a chance!
  • When enough plates pile up, have them washed. Always have enough clean plates at hand.
  • Make sure they are well rinsed, soap ruins the best tasting food.
  • It is also convenient to have the plates washed as early as possible. Leftovers won't stick and stink, the party will look better and you'll have less work the day after.

 

Cutlery

  • Beware, metal cutlery can be dangerous.
  • Keep it in the kitchen and bring it to the party room when it's time to eat.
  • Keep it in a safe place so that it won't fall on your guest's feet!
  • Keep it where it won't get accidentally dirty. It is classy to have it in a clean cotton towel.
  • Have sufficient cutlery in the party room and a good reserve in the kitchen.
  • Have abandoned cutlery returned to the kitchen.
  • It is convenient to have it washed as soon as possible.
  • Make sure it is well rinsed. Soap does not taste good.
  • Have it well dried, water stains look bad.

 

Agnes' Host Checklist Click here to download as Excel97 file

- The aim of this check list is to support the host in purchasing and organising the brunch

- The food for the brunch is strictly the personal choice of each host. The list below only provides an indication if those types of ingredients were to be bought by the host

- The check list can be completed and improved by any host

Drinks

Quantity

Remarks

Juices

0.5 l per person

Coffee

500 gr per event

Milk (to go with coffee)

1-2 l per event

Water

1 l per event

Food

Quantity

Remarks

Sugar (to go with coffee)

200 gr per event

Jam

3 or 4 sorts per event (strawberry is favorite)

Bread

125 gr per person

Butter

250 gr per event

Margarine

250 gr event

Cheese

50 gr per person

 

Meat

50 gr per person

Fruit salad

1 fruit for 2 persons

Material

Amount

Remarks

Serviettes

120% of number of guests

Cups for coffee

70% of number of guests

Glasses

200% of number of guests

Knifes / Forks / Spoons

120% of number of guests

Additional chairs

-

Cushions

-

provided by BWAD

Garbage bags

1 - 2 x 30 l

Wooden boards

Bread knifes